Planning a wedding

Why is planning a wedding so difficult? Because we make it difficult. I have never been the type of person to do things just because thats the way its done. I guess Im not a traditionalist. I believe that things in life should be done if they make since not because thats the way other people do it.

When planning a wedding there are tons of things that you are supposed to do that dont really add to the experience. For example, the fact that you have to mail out save the dates. Its something small I know thats why its an example. Another thing that doesnt make since is the fact that a wedding is the only time when people come together to celebrate you but you have to pay for them. On your birthday you get gifts, your graduation you get gifts, and when you have a baby you get showered with gifts. Just venting because I needed a post for today.

With that being said Im glad Im getting married and happy I wont ever have to go through this again. Im sure I will enjoy it on the day it happens.