Promoting your music by not promoting your music

In my experience in the music industry, musicians spend a lot of time promoting themselves and now with the creation of the intenet they feel that every chance they get they need to promote themselves. This is approach will never work as many of you probably have figured out. You should be focused on building relationships with the people you would want to buy your products or visit your websites. If you were standing in front of this person you wouldn’t constantly ask them from something. So don’t do it on the internet.